Assimilation is a Destroyer of the
Miracles.
by Steven Shamrak.
Being a Jewish
single guy, I went to a lecture “Why marry Jewish?” with the over-optimistic
hope of meeting a nice Jewish girl. During an hour of a well-prepared speech,
the presenter, Doron Kornbluth, mentioned several reasons why intermarriage
generally, and for Jews in particular is not a good idea. He offered many
non-confrontational ideas of how to keep Jews from marrying out. Suggestions
ranged from focusing on Jewish religious education, nudging to financial
bribery of the kids.
The fostering of Jewish national pride
and Jewish national education were omitted from his speech, most likely, in
fear of offending any converts or their offspring in the audience. Why would
they be offended, when Jews are talking about preservation of the national,
religious, historical and spiritual identity of Jewish people, if they had
embraced it? Every day Jews pray for the “righteous converts”. How many truly
righteous converts do you know?
The were no suggestions for teaching kids
about the history of the Jewish people, concepts of Jewish unity and Jewish
land, famous Jews and their contributions to the cultural, scientific and
technological evolution of our planet. Zionism was not even brought up at all!
Contrary to common belief, the idea that
being a Jew means just a religious observance is only two hundred years old. It
had emerged when the loyalty of the Jews was questioned during time of
Napoleon. Religious leaders at the time, quite justifiably fearing persecution
from the megalomaniac French emperor, gave ambiguous answers about who are the
Jews, nation or religion.
However Judaism is quite specific about
the national character of the Jewish people. It is written in Torah: “and
nation was born” at Mount Sinai. Several times it is stated that it is
obligatory for a Jew to marry Jew. Nothing has changed and must not be changed
just because on the surface modern society looks more tolerant and accepting
toward Jews or the need for some elderly Jews, mostly Holocaust survivors, to
feel illusionary comfort that their grandchildren are still remaining Jewish.
Quite often we hear: “My parents were
Jewish” or “I am not religious, therefore I am not Jew!” The first question
parents ask their kids when they hear the heart-breaking news “Mum/Dad my
special one is not Jewish”, is “will he/she convert?” Conversion, in spite of
the fact that, in accordance with Jewish law, marriage must not be the reason
for it, has become another convenient supermarket item. Parents use it now to
hide their deep inner pain, bitterness, disappointment and fear of losing their
kids. Instinctively, they know that their Jewish family flame has been
extinguished!
With assimilation rate over 50%, a
non-Jewish notion that being a Jew is only a religious obligation, which does
not work in a predominately secular society. We are losing people to
mixed-marriage, secularisation and ignorance. Most rabbis, Jewish leaders and
Israel’s officials are under pressure from bogus political correctness. They do
not pay attention and promote Jewish nationalism, patriotism and
‘Eretz-Israel’, the land of Israel. Jewish people are losing their
purposefulness in life to disillusionment and apathy!
There were 4 million Jews, almost 9% of
the population, in the Roman Empire two thousand years ago. After the WW2,
there were 12 million Jews worldwide. Sixty years later, the Jewish population
has increased by only less than 2 million. Most nations during this period have
doubled or even quadrupled their numbers. Assimilation is not violent like the
Inquisition, pogroms or the Holocaust, but it is deadlier and the damage it
brings is irreversible.
One of the miracles of the world is that
one nation with its number less than 0.2% of the world population has made a contribution
to humanity disproportional to its number. In spite of our achievements we are
still fearful to say loudly and openly “I am proud to be a Jew!” Why are
Italians, Greek, Chinese, Russians and other nations unapologetically proud of
their national heritage and sense of belonging. But not Jews!
The Jewish concept of the “Chosen people”
is about responsible leadership. It is not about being better than others or
putting others down, like many other people do. Jews also have an obligation to
self and must have a sense of healthy self-appreciation and respect, especially
when it is well deserved and long overdue!
The biggest miracle is that after 3,300
years, the Jewish people still exist. Many great nations has come and gone. But
if, in this ‘friendly’ and politicly correct environment, we do not teach our
children and grandchildren Jewishness, not solely religion; if we remain silent
while they are marrying out; if we allow people like Prese, Olmert, Barak and
other self-hating Jews squash out national spirit from inside – There will be
no more Miracles!